You are NOT in love.
oh my goodness, It is common among teenagers to fall in “love,” but trust me it’s more like “fall into a deep load of shit!” Although I can not say there is a certain age for love, I CAN say that 99.999% of teenagers who claim to have fallen in love really have succumbed to hormones. Face it, as teenagers hormones find us wherever the hell we decide to go (hence the acne and such). For girls, does that monthly calendar ring a bell? Love is serious. Nowadays people hand ou I love yous like free samples at the candy store. People accept it just as frequently. Teenagers now think that in order to keep a boyfriend or a girlfriend they must confess their love, when really it just intensifies the pain when the couple splits up, which most likely will happen in such young relationships. To the ladies: 1. When a boy kisses you, that does not mean that you will be together forever and that you are soul mates. It means he pressed his lips against yours and he thinks you are kinda cute. 2. When he asks you out, that does not mean he loves you. It means he thinks you are cool and wants to hang out with you. He likes you, but the distinction between like and love is vast. So when you are on that first date, try not to plan the wedding. 3. If you have to try to force an I love you from your boyfriend, he probably won’t mean it. He just wants to keep you happy. So take things slowly, and the relationship WILL last longer. 4. Think about your period (guys should skip over this). When you are PMSing or anything of the sort, you feel things that don’t exist. You get over emotional and convine yourself that you love this boy and find some stupid song and post it as your status. LAME LAME LAME. 5. Don’t get your hopes up. As pessimistic as this sounds, you won’t be together forever. Just don’t be too disappointed when your heart is broken. To the guys: 1. Be cautious. Girls can be insane. Some of us feel that in orer to keep you around, we must try to make the relationship as serious as we can. We push love and a future. I understand that guys do not necessarily want to hear about this kind of thing, but most of the others don’t. 2. Don’t take it easy. The easy, skank girls are usually the ones guilty for this over-committment stuff. If the girl is easy, that just means she is so insecure that she needs a man. Do you REALLY want to be constantly needed? This type of girl craves male attention, try to avoid it. 3. Don’t say it. Girls will take it to heart. The moment you say those 3 innocent words, our hearts become yours. Don’t play us like that. After a LONG LONG time dating it might be ok to say it, but after a week of meeting a hott girl, don’t even go there. It can mentally damage a few girls. Ok so to sum it all up, SLOW DOWN BABY! You have so much time in your life to have a super duper serious relationship. Now is the time to go hang out with boys you like, and go to parties and have fun; not to plan a future with your boyfriend. Enjoy yourself while you can, time flies faster than you think. ;)
<3Henna
